Masturbasi is a general phenomenon and that there is often discussed everywhere. Perpetrators are not limited to gender, age and social background. In fact masturbasi symptoms at the age of pubertas and teenagers, many occur. This is caused by sexual maturity climb and do not get a reasonable distribution, then added with a stimulus-stimulus external form of books and pornographic pictures, film blue, forge friends and others. By some people, masturbasi regarded as a habit that fun. But on the other groups are deemed to be a desecration activities themselves can cause a deviation psychosomatic and various other bad effects. Masturbasi done by most men and women. On a research revealed that 95% men and 89% of women are reported to have masturbasi. Masturbasi bring a lot of myths about the harmful consequences and shame. This negative image can be tracked back to far to the words of Latin origin, mastubare, which is a combination of two Latin words manus (hand) and stuprare (abuse), so that means that the "abuse of the hand." Suspicion shame and sin that is embedded terlanjur is because the portion of "abuse" in the word that up to now still remain in modern translation - even though the apparatus has been agreed that health masturbasi does not cause damage to physical or mental. The main objective is for masturbasi satisfaction or desire to remove the road with the sexual appetite without bersenggama. Akan masturbasi but could not provide the actual satisfaction. Unlike the bersenggama made by the two opposite types. They experience joy, happiness, and preoccupation with. In the coitus, the stimulus should not be raised in imitation, because sexual relations between men and women is a natural thing. In masturbasi the only source of stimulus is self-delusion. That is to create an erotic picture in mind. Masturbasi is a stimulus that are members of the local sex. Sex can cause the normal sense of happiness and joy, even while masturbasi create emotional and psychological depression.
Masturbasi term comes from the Latin word "manasturbo" which means feeling or friction with the hand (manu). Masturbasi general didefenisikan as a deliberate provocation on the genital organs in order to obtain sexual pleasure and satisfaction. But in fact, many ways to get self-satisfaction (self-Gratification) without practice hands (frictionless masturbation), so that the term be less masturbasi hit. Therefore, the term "autoerotism" is a term that describes more hit for this phenomenon.
There are some terms masturbasi known in the community, among others, masturbation, or masturbation, which means that a stimulus to their own sex organ with the friction-grit hand or object to the genital organs until we remove sperm and achieve orgasme. In the teachings of Islam, known by the name masturbasi; al-istimna ', al-istima'bilkaff, marriage al-yad, al-I'timar, or' adtus sirriyah. While masturbasi done by women is called al-ilthaf.
In the community more familiar term masturbation. This designation, according to various reviews written Prof. Dr. Dr. Wimpie Pangkahila Sp, And, Chairman of the Center for Studies and Andrology Seksologi Udayana University Faculty of Medicine, comes from the name of a man, Onan, as dikisahkan in the Old Testament have in the Book of Genesis chapter 38, Onan ordered his father, Judah, wife of the deceased spouse brother sister that have offspring. Onan objections, because the children born are considered to be the offspring of brother. But Onan shed outside the body spermanya widow that each related sexual (coitus interruptus). In a way that is now called sexual lost, the widow is not pregnant sister. However chilling consequences. God's wrath and Onan dead.
Masturbation or masturbasi in now is not as Onan. Masturbasi means the search for sexual satisfaction with the stimulus by itself (autoerotism), and can also receive and provide a means sexual excitement in sex for sexual satisfaction to reach each other (mutual masturbation). That does not happen on masturbasi sexual relationship, but can be achieved orgasme. Freud (1957) says there are 3 phases of masturbasi, namely (1) on the baby, (2) in the development phase of the most high infantile sexual development in the age range of 4 years, and (3) on the phase pubertas. According to Freud, sexual instinct is there at the beginning of life and develop progressif until the age of 4 years. After this stop it is no longer the development of the next (latent period) was time to bloom in the age range of 11 years.
Based on the way to do so, masturbasi can be divided into 3 types, namely:
1. Masturbasi own (auto masturbation); genital stimulation using hands, fingers, or rub-on gesekkannya an object
2. Masturbasi together (mutual masturbation); genital stimulation is done in a group that is usually based on a sense together, meet frequently and sometimes extend their activities to the theft (stealing) and destruction (Vandalism)
3. Masturbasi psychological; achievement orgasme fantasy and through audio-visual stimulus.
Meanwhile, other psychology experts, Caprio (1973), masturbasi to categorize activities in the 2 large groups, namely:
1. Masturbasi normal, including the exemption psikologik sexual tension in the young people of normal; not be excessive; masturbasi made by someone who has not marry; masturbasi the inter-paired husband-wife pairs sebgai intercourse distraction from the conventional
2. Masturbasi a neurotic, including masturbasi made too many and konvulsif; masturbasi pair of pair-like way more than intercourse, masturbasi with symptoms of fear, a sense / sin is a very, masturbasi pemuasan related to sexual abuse and misuse that can be threatened answerable by law.
Many Myths
Many people probably still have not quite understand masturbasi. In fact, many people do. That also, a lot of information circulating in the community about the masturbasi. Indeed, a lot of information about the wrong masturbasi, for example, can cause many bad consequences. Presumably one of this information are the myths about sex, which continues to circulate in the community so far.
In the XVIII century published a book written by Tissot of France, entitled Onana. It described several kinds of diseases that arise as a result masturbasi. In fact with the development of knowledge, that opinion is wrong Tissot.
Not true masturbasi can cause bad consequences for health, including sperm. So, there is no interference quantity and quality of sperm due to masturbasi. Indeed, the masturbasi done in haste in order to quickly achieve ejakulasi feared melatarbelakangi can occur early in the ejakulasi men. In the meantime, if you do it too often, of course, you will feel the pains masturbasi. The same as sexual, masturbation also requires energy.
Masturbasi expression of sexuality is a natural and not harmful to the men and women, and a very good way to experience sexual pleasure. In fact, some experts argued that the masturbasi can improve sexual health because it will increase the understanding of parts of the body and the way how memuaskannya, build the confidence and attitude can understand yourself.
Impact of mentality
Impulse-impulse autoerotic (masturbasi) there is in all men. The difference only lies in how we finish, encouragement is encouraged. Some of us merepresikan encouraged to satisfy themselves, while others express desires to have sexual pemuasan.
One man who encouraged people often get the personal and social difficulties are encouraged sexual abuse, which in reality is often the human face to a situation that is very urgent and blandish to obtain sexual pemuasan immediately. There is an issue of sexual abuse on the individual can cause individuals who are often concerned that the situation seems to have a tendency to fall to a level that infantil or immature, and every effort to behave sexual Matur therefore hampered.
What happens is, the source of sexual satisfaction is an important by some people still feel guilty ditanggapi with the ignorance and fear that their activities masturbasi is a safe, also because of religious teaching for centuries the activities that are considered as a sin. Moreover, many of us have received negative messages from our parents, or been punished when caught masturbasi time to wet a child.
The cumulative effect of these events are often substantial confusion and sense of sin, which is also often difficult dipilah. When where masturbasi be so dangerous when he is already possess people (kompulsif). Masturbasi kompulsif - as the other psychiatric behavior - is a sign of psychiatric problems and need to get a doctor's handling of the soul.
Phase masturbasi konfulsif end if not completed correctly phenomenon is the emergence of sexual addicted, an addiction will sexual activities. Physically, masturbasi can cause damage to kelecetan or mukosa network and other organs of the genitalia, whether as a result of the tools masturbasi or just using the hand and finger.
Kinsey research in the United States show that almost all men and three-quarters of all women do masturbasi at a time in their lives. Investigations Orebio get that 83% of boys and 38% of children do masturbasi women. Other investigations showed that the number is different at each age level of respondents, for example, the children (infantile sex play), adolescent, middle age and other categories.
Most of the men who do masturbasi tend to do so more often than women, and they tend to represent 'always' or' usually 'experience orgasme when bermasturbasi (80: 60). This is the sexual behavior of the most common number two (after coitus), even for those who already have a pair sexual remain.
According to the research, which they usually do masturbasi aged between thirteen to twenty years. In general, that they do masturbasi is a single, menjanda, menduda or those who are lonely or in exile. Boys do more than masturbasi daughter. The causes, among others,
The first, child sexual appetite of women do not come and shoot eksplosit.
Second, the child's attention specifically to women, not a problem because the dream sexual coitus and remove sperm (ihtilam) more experienced men. Erotic dreams that cause orgasme occur if the woman has the feeling that the situation in dialaminya awake.
Masturbasi term comes from the Latin word "manasturbo" which means feeling or friction with the hand (manu). Masturbasi general didefenisikan as a deliberate provocation on the genital organs in order to obtain sexual pleasure and satisfaction. But in fact, many ways to get self-satisfaction (self-Gratification) without practice hands (frictionless masturbation), so that the term be less masturbasi hit. Therefore, the term "autoerotism" is a term that describes more hit for this phenomenon.
There are some terms masturbasi known in the community, among others, masturbation, or masturbation, which means that a stimulus to their own sex organ with the friction-grit hand or object to the genital organs until we remove sperm and achieve orgasme. In the teachings of Islam, known by the name masturbasi; al-istimna ', al-istima'bilkaff, marriage al-yad, al-I'timar, or' adtus sirriyah. While masturbasi done by women is called al-ilthaf.
In the community more familiar term masturbation. This designation, according to various reviews written Prof. Dr. Dr. Wimpie Pangkahila Sp, And, Chairman of the Center for Studies and Andrology Seksologi Udayana University Faculty of Medicine, comes from the name of a man, Onan, as dikisahkan in the Old Testament have in the Book of Genesis chapter 38, Onan ordered his father, Judah, wife of the deceased spouse brother sister that have offspring. Onan objections, because the children born are considered to be the offspring of brother. But Onan shed outside the body spermanya widow that each related sexual (coitus interruptus). In a way that is now called sexual lost, the widow is not pregnant sister. However chilling consequences. God's wrath and Onan dead.
Masturbation or masturbasi in now is not as Onan. Masturbasi means the search for sexual satisfaction with the stimulus by itself (autoerotism), and can also receive and provide a means sexual excitement in sex for sexual satisfaction to reach each other (mutual masturbation). That does not happen on masturbasi sexual relationship, but can be achieved orgasme. Freud (1957) says there are 3 phases of masturbasi, namely (1) on the baby, (2) in the development phase of the most high infantile sexual development in the age range of 4 years, and (3) on the phase pubertas. According to Freud, sexual instinct is there at the beginning of life and develop progressif until the age of 4 years. After this stop it is no longer the development of the next (latent period) was time to bloom in the age range of 11 years.
Based on the way to do so, masturbasi can be divided into 3 types, namely:
1. Masturbasi own (auto masturbation); genital stimulation using hands, fingers, or rub-on gesekkannya an object
2. Masturbasi together (mutual masturbation); genital stimulation is done in a group that is usually based on a sense together, meet frequently and sometimes extend their activities to the theft (stealing) and destruction (Vandalism)
3. Masturbasi psychological; achievement orgasme fantasy and through audio-visual stimulus.
Meanwhile, other psychology experts, Caprio (1973), masturbasi to categorize activities in the 2 large groups, namely:
1. Masturbasi normal, including the exemption psikologik sexual tension in the young people of normal; not be excessive; masturbasi made by someone who has not marry; masturbasi the inter-paired husband-wife pairs sebgai intercourse distraction from the conventional
2. Masturbasi a neurotic, including masturbasi made too many and konvulsif; masturbasi pair of pair-like way more than intercourse, masturbasi with symptoms of fear, a sense / sin is a very, masturbasi pemuasan related to sexual abuse and misuse that can be threatened answerable by law.
Many Myths
Many people probably still have not quite understand masturbasi. In fact, many people do. That also, a lot of information circulating in the community about the masturbasi. Indeed, a lot of information about the wrong masturbasi, for example, can cause many bad consequences. Presumably one of this information are the myths about sex, which continues to circulate in the community so far.
In the XVIII century published a book written by Tissot of France, entitled Onana. It described several kinds of diseases that arise as a result masturbasi. In fact with the development of knowledge, that opinion is wrong Tissot.
Not true masturbasi can cause bad consequences for health, including sperm. So, there is no interference quantity and quality of sperm due to masturbasi. Indeed, the masturbasi done in haste in order to quickly achieve ejakulasi feared melatarbelakangi can occur early in the ejakulasi men. In the meantime, if you do it too often, of course, you will feel the pains masturbasi. The same as sexual, masturbation also requires energy.
Masturbasi expression of sexuality is a natural and not harmful to the men and women, and a very good way to experience sexual pleasure. In fact, some experts argued that the masturbasi can improve sexual health because it will increase the understanding of parts of the body and the way how memuaskannya, build the confidence and attitude can understand yourself.
Impact of mentality
Impulse-impulse autoerotic (masturbasi) there is in all men. The difference only lies in how we finish, encouragement is encouraged. Some of us merepresikan encouraged to satisfy themselves, while others express desires to have sexual pemuasan.
One man who encouraged people often get the personal and social difficulties are encouraged sexual abuse, which in reality is often the human face to a situation that is very urgent and blandish to obtain sexual pemuasan immediately. There is an issue of sexual abuse on the individual can cause individuals who are often concerned that the situation seems to have a tendency to fall to a level that infantil or immature, and every effort to behave sexual Matur therefore hampered.
What happens is, the source of sexual satisfaction is an important by some people still feel guilty ditanggapi with the ignorance and fear that their activities masturbasi is a safe, also because of religious teaching for centuries the activities that are considered as a sin. Moreover, many of us have received negative messages from our parents, or been punished when caught masturbasi time to wet a child.
The cumulative effect of these events are often substantial confusion and sense of sin, which is also often difficult dipilah. When where masturbasi be so dangerous when he is already possess people (kompulsif). Masturbasi kompulsif - as the other psychiatric behavior - is a sign of psychiatric problems and need to get a doctor's handling of the soul.
Phase masturbasi konfulsif end if not completed correctly phenomenon is the emergence of sexual addicted, an addiction will sexual activities. Physically, masturbasi can cause damage to kelecetan or mukosa network and other organs of the genitalia, whether as a result of the tools masturbasi or just using the hand and finger.
Kinsey research in the United States show that almost all men and three-quarters of all women do masturbasi at a time in their lives. Investigations Orebio get that 83% of boys and 38% of children do masturbasi women. Other investigations showed that the number is different at each age level of respondents, for example, the children (infantile sex play), adolescent, middle age and other categories.
Most of the men who do masturbasi tend to do so more often than women, and they tend to represent 'always' or' usually 'experience orgasme when bermasturbasi (80: 60). This is the sexual behavior of the most common number two (after coitus), even for those who already have a pair sexual remain.
According to the research, which they usually do masturbasi aged between thirteen to twenty years. In general, that they do masturbasi is a single, menjanda, menduda or those who are lonely or in exile. Boys do more than masturbasi daughter. The causes, among others,
The first, child sexual appetite of women do not come and shoot eksplosit.
Second, the child's attention specifically to women, not a problem because the dream sexual coitus and remove sperm (ihtilam) more experienced men. Erotic dreams that cause orgasme occur if the woman has the feeling that the situation in dialaminya awake.
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